Human is most powerfull creature of nature or we can say human is 2nd most powerfull body after nature. Human behave, basically consist all type of his reactions for any situations and happens. Some kinds of our behaves is repeated frequently so this kind of behaves are easily pridictable for others. Our parents and our life partener who spend most time with us, can easily know our repeatable behaviours. But still, human have a new kind reactions to situations which are not pridictable by another persons. In many crirtical situations, human brain releases a special kind of harmons and control particular situations. It may be possible that this kind of harmons hadnot released from billions of years or be deactivated for a long time.
So human behaviour is a mixes of known and unknown reactions toward situations.
Most pridictable behave is "Anger". We can easily know that what things be a reason for anger for a particular person. This reasons vary person to person.
Recently i have participited my PG convocation. Before this program, I had planed a lot of plans for fun and enjoyment. Basically this time i was going to meet my classmates and my seniors. But due to college scheduled and all things not happend acording my planing. I couldnot meet with seniors and i got a instant anger. I got hyper and i spoiled all my remaing time and i could not enjoy night party with mu classmates and all. Actully i got anger on me, one of my senior girl, whome i like most. Actully i wanted spend a long time with her and due to tight scheduel, she could not get time for me.
This is enough for me to get anger and i did quit all fun and parties. After that even she waited for me, but i didnt meet her. I spoiled my time and thinked a lot of nonsense. I become ready to come back to my home and quit all things. But at mid night, when i thinked another, her pint of view, she was correct at her place and i was wrong, so i was wrong and still i got anger. Now my anger gone away and i felt guilt for what i did. I sent a massage to her and felt sorry. She also felt guily for all and after all next day we spent a quality of time and shortout all things.
Now i am surprised that my behaviour, how can i got anger without any reason, how can i behave like this??
This is still be mystry for me, and i concluded a lot of things from this sudden behave, some are following:-
1> Never takes decision when you get angry.
2> just think about another side of coin or another person's point of view, it may be that you were wrong.
3> Belive in your relations strongly.
4> Try to live every moment even after some of your planning not be successfull.
5> If human being really want to solve any issue or proplem, he can easily shortout it by good will power and initiatives, some times , gaps and misunderstandings become more bigger in absence of initiatins of any side. A small initiations can resolve a big to big problem.
6> Dont share your personls issues with anoher, you may regret in future about this.
So human behaviour is a mixes of known and unknown reactions toward situations.
Most pridictable behave is "Anger". We can easily know that what things be a reason for anger for a particular person. This reasons vary person to person.
Recently i have participited my PG convocation. Before this program, I had planed a lot of plans for fun and enjoyment. Basically this time i was going to meet my classmates and my seniors. But due to college scheduled and all things not happend acording my planing. I couldnot meet with seniors and i got a instant anger. I got hyper and i spoiled all my remaing time and i could not enjoy night party with mu classmates and all. Actully i got anger on me, one of my senior girl, whome i like most. Actully i wanted spend a long time with her and due to tight scheduel, she could not get time for me.
This is enough for me to get anger and i did quit all fun and parties. After that even she waited for me, but i didnt meet her. I spoiled my time and thinked a lot of nonsense. I become ready to come back to my home and quit all things. But at mid night, when i thinked another, her pint of view, she was correct at her place and i was wrong, so i was wrong and still i got anger. Now my anger gone away and i felt guilt for what i did. I sent a massage to her and felt sorry. She also felt guily for all and after all next day we spent a quality of time and shortout all things.
Now i am surprised that my behaviour, how can i got anger without any reason, how can i behave like this??
This is still be mystry for me, and i concluded a lot of things from this sudden behave, some are following:-
1> Never takes decision when you get angry.
2> just think about another side of coin or another person's point of view, it may be that you were wrong.
3> Belive in your relations strongly.
4> Try to live every moment even after some of your planning not be successfull.
5> If human being really want to solve any issue or proplem, he can easily shortout it by good will power and initiatives, some times , gaps and misunderstandings become more bigger in absence of initiatins of any side. A small initiations can resolve a big to big problem.
6> Dont share your personls issues with anoher, you may regret in future about this.
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